221: I’m Crushing Your Expectations!

Rick discusses finding love when living on the autistic spectrum. He wonders what the most important ingredient in a relationship is no matter who you are. Cheri gets another kitty. Rick discusses the new season of The Kids In The Hall. We prepare for EVIL ZOOM 2022! Our Live Beer Review is Arches’ Bohemian Riot Pilsner.

220: Playing The Blues

Rick rediscovers some cartooning loves. Cheri reacquaints herself with some new depression impulses. This week’s Live Beer Review is Beacon Brewing’s Pucker Up Baby! 

219: Death By Murdering

This week Rick is having dogja vu. Cheri is getting another cat. Rick recalls gross and disgusting restaurant stories. A strange murder case is discovered in South Carolina and we discover a very tall family. Not a bad week. Our Live Beer Review is Boulevard Brewing’s Rye on Rye.

218: Body Awareness

Well, this is last week’s episode that had sound issues. The issues have been kinda fixed we think. It may not be perfect so if it bugs you, feel free to skip to the next episode. Our Live Beer Review is Key Lime Pie Nitro by Left Hand Brewing Company.

217: Heavy Petting

Cheri realizes she may be Kramer. Rick get a reminder about sizzurp. Cheri and Rick discuss the importance of recognizing the people who came before you and did the hard work to make your life easier. Rick gives Cheri a quiz on famous pets. Our Live Beer Review Is Belhaven Black NITRO.

216: Liquored

It’s Rick’s Birthday week and so the discussion is about God and booze. Always a fun time. The Live Beer Review is Silent Accord by Six Bridges Brewing.

215: Hometown

Rick has a punk music moment. Cheri remembers her hometown. Rick discovers one of his older poems is packed with historical coincidence. We give recognition to some people doing the hard work. Our Live Beer Review this week is Narragansett’s Mango-Passionfruit Shandy.

214: Teaching the F Chord to Ferlin Husky

Cheri and Rick record a very special morning episode and, therefore, decide not to do a Live Beer Review this week. Rick wonders what our parents’ secret code word or phrase was for having sex. No, no, no, don’t tell us! Cheri forces Rick to watch a Ryan Reynolds movie. Rick learns about The Band.

That’s Not Funny.

 
I’ve been involved in humor/comedy my whole life as either a cartoonist or as a performer. I learned early in my career that I’m the kind of writer who relies heavily on an editor. Editors have saved my ass countless of times. So many issues I fought about at the time, I now look back on and think, “Whew! That editor was so right!” I often wish I could hire a good editor for my Facebook posts but, unfortunately, people will have to continue getting the raw, unrefined and frequently nonsensical posts as they are posted.
 
Comedy is subjective. It’s easy to miscommunicate and it frequently has a very short shelf life. Few of us will remember why we found any of the Will Smith jokes funny from the vantage point of next year. So much standup comedy from the 70s and 80s today seems racist or sexist. Most comedy has a sting and, consequently, one who is stung. There are groups today who have made it their mission to come to the aid of those who, for years, have been unfairly stung by jokes. A noble cause, I suppose. Yet, even a good many of those people still made jokes about Trump’s weight or tried to make him look weak or silly by attaching homosexual stereotypes to him.
 
I don’t personally enjoy mean or attacking comedy but I’m also not a big believer in silencing comics, cartoonists or humor writers. Once that begins with good intentions, its result is something like the slaughter that happened a few years ago at the office of “Charlie Hebdo.” No one enjoys being a target of satire and comedy. Kings and Queens would behead people for doing it. Today we cancel. Or try to anyway. Louie C.K. just won a Grammy. The interesting thing about comedy is that it isn’t comedy without an audience. It’s an art form that isn’t complete without the validation of laughter. You could ask “If comedy drops on SiriusXM and no one is there to laugh, is it still funny?” The answer is “no.” Comedy needs laughter. Confronting no laughter, the comic will simply pack up and go away. Except Pauly Shore.
 
I think most of us know this. But we also know if we stop laughing there will still be thousands who continue to laugh. We don’t so much want to silence the comedian, what we REALLY want is to silence the hundreds of thousands of people who laugh at the things we don’t find funny. Because laughter essentially is a form of agreement. That agreement means there are many people who don’t think like we do. Throughout history, there have always been those who cannot tolerate a voice or an opinion counter to their own. They will attempt to silence it any way possible. Often they will do so under the guise of morality or tell us it’s “for our own good.” And it never works. Bad comics will still tell jokes. Bad people will still find work as comics. Kids will still laugh at boogers and farts and the insensitive will still laugh at the expense of others. The attempt to silence them is not only a futile attempt but, at its extreme, makes the silencers worse than what they are trying to silence. Eventually, it just ends up making their target stronger. Protest will sell many more tickets to the bad comic’s show.
 
My solution to dealing with the disagreeable comedian is to ignore them. Being ignored is literally the worst thing for a comic and the main reason I’m leaving Twitter. Do not underestimate its power. Silence kills comics dead. [– Rick]